self help

How to change your life through changing your paradigms…

I have commented on or used paradigms on this site 8 different times in the past 13 months.  Two times I mentioned paradigms in the title to the post. That was here and here.

I am positive humans were able to gain insight from both those posts, which is why I shared them again.

I would like […]

By |September 2nd, 2017|optimize, ownyourlife, self help|16 Comments

The feeling of lack

I am been on a journey of self discovery for a long time. It seems like I am gaining some headway of sorts. Lack is something that I deal with.

It is said that what you experience in your life externally is what you are feeling internally.

Well, there have been a lot of strange parallels in […]

By |August 29th, 2017|ownyourlife, self help, spirituality|12 Comments

Strange brain aids

So to get a bit off topic of my usual subjects, I thought I would share a list of things I found on Learning Mind, with my spin on them. This topic is strange brain aids.

Not just any things. Brain hack type things.

I am always looking for any little hacks to get us to our […]

By |August 26th, 2017|mind, optimize, self help|20 Comments

Our 7 mental flaws

I just started my next book and wanted to share the basic premise of it as it would possibly enlightening for you to read and it helps me to absorb the material as well. This lists, in his definition, the 7 mental flaws.

The book is called Winning the Brain Game, by Matthew May.

There is a […]

By |August 23rd, 2017|mind, optimize, ownyourlife, self help|18 Comments

Your Black and White

I have never really paid too much attention to Alan Watts until now.  He is a pretty awesome bloke.  This is after I was introduced to his game called Black and White.

Allow me to tell you about it…I think you will be interested.

First of all, let me tell you how I found out about it.

I […]

By |August 18th, 2017|optimize, ownyourlife, self help, spirituality|0 Comments

Have a pet? You should.

I have two dogs. One husky and one husky wolf mix. They are a big part of my world. I am theirs. Pets are awesome in more ways than one.

There are millions of humans out there who feel the same way I do about pets.  For good reason.

The health benefits of having pets-dogs, cats, whatever-is […]

By |August 15th, 2017|optimize, ownyourlife, self help|0 Comments

Mastering Self control

I will be honest with you, I suffer from not having this skill of self control mastered. I would really love to know where I would be as far as this website would be as far as notoriety and recognition if I concentrated more on this site.

I have been feeling this way for a time […]

By |August 11th, 2017|optimize, ownyourlife, self help|0 Comments

Valuable life hacks

I am all about good life hacks to help me ultimately ‘win’ and further myself.  They could be as simple as doing new things, journaling and reading every day. But we can do more.

This post will be a bit more about human interaction. Not necessarily manipulation, but knowing how humans interact on a larger scale […]

By |August 7th, 2017|ownyourlife, self help|0 Comments